Today is
Eid -the largest Muslim celebration.
On my way to the bakery yesterday morning for some fresh bread for breakfast I saw a monkey hanging out on
some one's eave's drop. My estimate is that if it stood on his hind legs he would probably come up to my torso.
Last night we went to a dinner party for my godfather John's birthday. Kimberly, 7 years old brought a basket into the living room with something inside that turned out to be a 3 week old pug named spiky. So cute.
The night before last we had another dinner party at John's house for his birthday. An evening full of food, drinks and laughter. Most of my parents close friends were there. I was the first child born in their circle of friends so I'm pretty well pampered by them. We shared some of our wedding pictures with them as they would have been part of the wedding if distance wasn't a factor.
Before the party kicked off we headed out briefly to a neighbouring society where a few friends lived, where the traditional Gujarati festival is currently taking place the span of nine days. They dance and dance and dance. It was so beautiful. They were clad in traditional Gujarati garb, colourful and full of tiny mirrors. The women and men danced in these heavy clothes in the society compound with a DJ accompanying them.
Traditionally they would have a live band and go for 9 days and play into the night. However,
Mumbai has a noise curfew at 10pm which is relatively (and selectively)
enforced which drives the parties indoors or forces them to end early. Also, being in the city, this festival is often cut down to one or two nights as the society (the group of apartment buildings as I explained before) only permits them the space on those nights out of respect for the comfort of the other residents.
Our friend Jean who lives there asked one of the ladies named Merlin, who was part of the dancing to include us. Merlin stuck by us and patiently showed us the steps which were fairly introductory as they asked the
DJ to play the slower songs so we could keep up. The music eventually speeds up and more complex steps are added as well as hand work with sticks which I've only seen in movies. It's all so beautiful -the way they move, the rhythm, the outfits, the music. Definitely the highlight of my time here thus far even if it was only 20minutes. We had to get back to John;s birthday party otherwise we would have stayed longer. And yes, Jonathan participated and danced beautifully -for those who might be wondering.
We spent yesterday visiting families from the building I grew up in before I left India when I was four. Some close family friends who we have kept in touch with. We had amazing
Manglorian food which both Jonathan I are really enjoyed as it's very similar to what my mom cooks because my dad is from
Manglore and my mom is from a neighbouring state.
We went to a tea party for an old school teacher of mine ( school starts here at the age of three so I had completed a year of school here before I moved to Nova
Scotia). It was a very sweet party. It's tradition here to treat your guests instead of the other way around which is what we are used to. So after a huge lovely simple lunch we were fed more at the tea party. We danced a little, looked at pictures from when I was a baby, and played trivia/riddle games with the ladies from the society [i.e. What's the difference between a bull and a car? The bull has two horns and the car has only one. What country does a cook utilize in the kitchen? Greece.] It was hilarious and amusing to watch everyone so good natured and full of joy and celebration. It was great to see the range of personality come out of the women in a space where they dominated as there were only 3/4 men (including Jonathan) present.
We drove around
Malad today with John, his son Bruce and their cousin's from Australia as we checked out some of the fishing villages and beaches near by. I'll post some pictures. I finally got to eat some sweet roasted corn -freshly roasted in a stall on the beach over a bed of hot coals and dusted with salt and lime juice.
Sorry my entry is so
chronologically dyslexic -it's siesta time and I'm sleepy.
Below are some pictures -I recently added some explanations.

This is a fishing village near
Malad. About a 10/15 min drive away from where we are staying.
As you can see these traditional boats float in front of the modern day
Mumbai backdrop.
Mumbai's initial inhabitants were
fisherpeople. Over the years of subsequent conquerors
Mumbai's 7 islands were filled in and connected and it's native inhabitants increasingly pushed out by the influx of immigrants from all over India and beyond.
I didn't get any pictures because I didn't want to disturb the people, but you could clearly see the imprint of the west and capitalism within the village. Small shops have sprung up where old trading posts would have been. These small shops attached to people's homes are painted from top to bottom with Coke Cola slogans and images and the shops enable people to enact western lifestyles as the shops carry modern day unhealthy snacks like "American Style sour cream and onion Lays Chips".
As you get closer to the main part of the city you see more and more shops run by people who have immigrated to
Mumbai from all over India in an attempt to make a life for themselves. The shops vary in their goods but all in all supply all the
conveniences one could ask for. Most of the goods unfit for the once traditional fishing towns.
In many ways being the big city that it is,
Mumbai is the land of promise. As traditional infrastructure, lifestyle and
livelihoods like agriculture are
increasingly left to rot all over the country and are invaded by capitalist venture and profit more and more people escape to
Mumbai where industry and the promises of the West are closer at hand. But once here people themselves are left to rot on the sidewalks and those that can attempt to squeeze themselves
in between the cracks and pockets of business in an attempt to live out their dreams and realize the promise the city claimed it held for them.

Jonathan snuck closer to grab some shots of the boats. A
Mandir -Hindu temple- perches on the rocks behind him. You can be int he drabbest, poorest part of the city and always, a religious beacon -whether it be a church, temple or mosque rises above it all in splendid colour and grace.

Some of the older boats sunken into the shallow waters act as docks for the newer boats.

The old boats remind me of skeletons with their ribs
protruding out of the waters.

Some street dogs resting in the heat

A church within the village. Notice the drawing of the boat and its sail under Mother Mary holding her infant, with the words Ave Maria on either side of the picture.

This is part of a fishing plant. Crates of fish that match the paintings on the wall.

Fish being walked back and forth between the plant and the ocean with an alter over looking the ocean.


Fish -possibly eel- drying in the sun.

A plethora of fish drying on the sand -and Jonathan's shadow impeding the process

I don't know if you can read the inscription -but its a prayer commemorating the reconstruction of a church built in the 1500's.

Goats by the ocean.

Jonathan hanging out with the goats

The remnants of the old church and a tour bus in front.
The name of the bus printed on the side: "Michael Jackson".

Crumbling away

Apparently there were some visiting priests (possibly carried in via the bus?) so a small celebration ensued where villagers lined up ahead for the feast.




Jonathan and Cheryl with 20day old
Spikey.
widdle Spike